tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413979849467676364.post1355156596669936319..comments2023-04-03T04:39:11.094-05:00Comments on A Put Together Mess: Sad and validating at the same timeBraveheartshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13946260652538884702noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413979849467676364.post-15085465382263879422009-05-11T16:54:00.000-05:002009-05-11T16:54:00.000-05:00Braveheart, I am so glad that you posted this. E...Braveheart, I am so glad that you posted this. Even though my t. is not as long as yours, I still wonder "how much longer" and why and what do I need to feel to make ground to move on to the next step. Am I suppopsed to cry, am I supposed to grieve and I supposed to....... While reading your post, I thought it was going to have a good outcome for your friend, but am sorry that it did not. Dear one, I appreciate the time that you took to share this. BlessingsJust Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413979849467676364.post-21629221082642978592009-05-08T04:54:00.000-05:002009-05-08T04:54:00.000-05:00I hear that you care a great deal for your friend ...I hear that you care a great deal for your friend and what she is going through - but at the same time your long journey through therapy and healing needs to be validated and shown to be worthwhile. Maybe it is possible for some people to be 'healed' quickly (and yes - everyone's experiences of abuse or other trauma are valid, but also different, and therefore may require different approaches, different time scales) - but that does not mean your hard work is not valuable. <br /><br />Yes - unfair. That is true. :(thesameskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13227668688484051305noreply@blogger.com